One day you will have to admit it, this is not what you have expected.

So you had the courage to launch yourself to the wild river of life expecting the currents take you as fast as possible wherever you wanted.
But they didn't.
For whatever reason which now doesn't matter.
They let you down.
Somehow you fell deep and got stuck.

What now?

Probably you might admit you need a help.
Here it is what you will find in the market of help:

- Society: "We need to collect funds and find the cure for your rare disease. By the time, take some aspirins."

- Psychologist: "Make yourself comfortable on this fancy coach and explain me why you think you are stuck."

- Facebook friend: That's really bad news dude :-( Hopefully things will get better :-) Sorry, have to go…:-| Talk to you soon! :-*

- Family: "I told you not to jump".

Having seen the scenario, is someone going to help you out from that mud?

It's hard, but admit it.

You got into this mud by yourself.

You actually don't need a medicine, nonsense talk or a blame on you.

You only need a nudge!

It can come from a random person, your enemy, boss,  damned accident … anything that can help you experience that nomadic moment.

What does it feel like?

Well, I bet you have already felt it and not even noticed it at all!

For example, do you remember when you turn adult from being a teenager? I guess you don't know the exact day and hour when it happened, it just happened and you moved on.

It will not distract you like something awesome, super-attractive and exciting.

It's much more. It won't distract you.

It's the momentum when you realise you don't need to get unstuck anymore because you are already running your journey which is pretty cool with all that landscape you have seen so far.

You just moved on.

That simple.

Don't look for the change, you will never find it.

Instead, do it.

Do it frequently and do it your way! You will have to move your a** though.

A spontaneous, constant and steady movement towards one direction.

Like in a pooh stick game. You are the swimming stick and as long as you don't get stuck anywhere you will be able to run and have fun.

But if eventually you get stuck, don't think too much about the mud around you, simply continue, give yourself a nudge, a nomadic moment and getaway from that sh*t to the next level.

Life is still a game.

5 Rules to follow in the middle of the muddy life experience

1. Relax and have fun for your sake. Mud bath is good for your skin, muscles ...

2. Read with open eyes and in between the lines. Read people.

3. Run towards one direction, not in circles.

4. Re-do things you don't like, don't re-think about them.

5. Remember, life can be simpler if you do things simpler way.


Actually change doesn't hurt that much as you might think.

Negative thoughts and complaints make things even worse than the failure in itself.

If you want to keep alive, stop thinking too much.

Imagine you are in front of a hungry lion, would you think too much about your situation?

No!

You would react immediately, hopefully...

So, ready to get unstuck or are you still enjoying that mud bath?


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