They are people who will tell you what you want to hear.
And there are people who will tell you the truth.
The first group, probably you call them friends, and the second one, could be a very good adept for your hated enemy.
However, and how unpleasant could seem to you hear the truth of one person, give it a go, it's still a valuable different point of view.
You cannot be always right, because you simply can't, life is smarter than you.
The thing is to keep honest to what sounds really right to you, not what others think you should or should not do, think or say.
We are becoming a society of thousands of likes because we deeply need someone likes our creations, leisures, travels, activities, etc. That's why Facebook is so successful and addictive. You can get easily more and more of these Facebook friends.
And then you have the enemies, those who could save your dreams, the real ones and help you believe in the real change. These "special" friends will likely push you go further through new territories and understand new philosophies.
They would be frank about the nonsense of your point of view and mistaken attitudes.
They would be frank about the nonsense of your point of view and mistaken attitudes.
They wouldn't tell you how amazing you are, if you are not.
The enemy is good to show you what you don't like about yourself, honestly because hurting feelings sometimes is simply necessary.
Sometimes your friend could be hidden in your worst enemy.
Sometimes your friend could be hidden in your worst enemy.
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